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Tuesday 8 May 2007

2 men+ 1 woman?...

I told u guys my experience & thoughts about situation when in sex participate 2 girls & one man. So it's time to discuss opposite situation. In this case i think that the thoughts to involve another guy in sex mostly times belong to women actually, but they very seldom say that aloud to their partner. They just behave the way to push their men to propose this to them. Though here's many different types of relationships between men&women, so it's very hard to say for 100% who's is mostly initiator :)

My personal opinion: in GENERAL IT CAN BE interesting for experience (but sometimes during sex with my husband i hardly can imagine how i'd deal with 2 guys and would carry on this if i'm satisfied with my husband much more than i even need), but only in a case when u r:

1. far away from home (in different country) when u'r sure u ll never meet that guys any more (just in case);

2. got acquaintance with two guys-friends at the same time and had the same relations with each of them

3. u know them not long time but already can trust them.

So as u see it's very hard to find right partners for this process ;)

But i remember couple years ago i was dating with one guy, and we had nice relations and i appreciated them a lot. So after some time he proposed me to have sex with another guy (attention! it was a men, who proposed that!) but as far as i didn't want our relations changes after that i refused. We broke up after some time, and sometimes i regret i didn't try that. But also. When u love somebody (like now i love my husband) i love to belong just to him, i love to show that in front of other guys who can flirt with me. I get some kind of satisfaction so i hardly can imagine myself being shared by husband with another man. Also it's gonna be just sex, but i have the principle to have sex only with the person I love (i wrote about that).

But in any case the relations will change after that. And it's very risk full for loving couples. The relations can change as to better side - u'll open something new in a partner and u'll start to trust him more, as to worse - u'll not like that and not be able to forget ur partner in that time, ur memory will not leave u in harmony or u'l just be jealous. So one should to risk when he has nothing to loose i think (even with husband or wife, when the relations came to the end just to refresh them any way, but not as many young couples preferring free sexual relations being married!). According to forums where that subject is often discussed many couples broke after that. And everyone should understand where this freedom in sexual life leads love to...

3 comments:

AndreiG said...

As I have understood, one of the reasons on which the woman can borrow in sex with two men - staying far from the house. But if at this time at the home expect your beloved man, for example a husband?..

Anastasiya said...

Without BUT honey :) Hardly can imagine another guy near me when I'm far away from u (i'd miss u a lot, a crazy?!), and 2 guys???.... Am i the last bitch?...

Anonymous said...

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